What is it with these girls all wanting to sleep with some girl or another?
The latest is 18 year old Heroes star Hayden Panettiere. According to American GQ, she wants to sleep with Angelina Jolie.
"Well, if you want to make me a lesbian, that's totally fine with me. That would be a pretty funny rumour. I'd love to have a love affair with Angelina,” she said.
Panettiere, who is 14 years junior of Mrs Pitt, also claimed, "and there are other beautiful girls I like too - Charlize Theron, oh my God! Kate Beckinsale is gorgeous too, and Jessica Alba.”
We have enough problem dealing with working out if someone is a heterosexual in the first place without all these “I'm not gay but..” people coming into the picture.




The majority of women are bisexual, at least enough to fantasize about sleeping with another woman.
For the most part it seems to be only gay men who really have a tough time getting their heads around this.
On the other hand most lesbians will probably experience intimacy with at least one "straight" girl at some time or another in their lives.
Posted by: Geri | November 24, 2007 at 01:04 AM
What gay men fail to understand is that many hetero women are not 100% into men like gay men are.
Posted by: Alex Johess | November 25, 2007 at 10:50 AM
So does that mean that bisexual women are.... very common??? Mediocrity at its very best.
Posted by: Blackjack | December 07, 2007 at 07:19 AM
No, blackjack it means women are not obsessed with men as gay men are. For women men are disposable. In fact I think women are becoming less str8. Will the last str8 woman close the door on the way out!!
Posted by: Sam Rhodes | December 08, 2007 at 09:42 PM
To me, it would be perfectly natural for a normal heterosexual woman to be bi-curious, even if never actually sexually involved with another woman. I think that the emotional and the sexual are very closely linked in most women, and the movement from emotional attachment to its physical expression would be a natural and normal progresssion---were it not for artificial social disapproval. But, a discreet and prudent relationship between two (or more) women can be not only rewarding but deeply satisfying and emotionally broadening if treated wisely and respectfully by the parties involved. Good luck and best wishes, dear ladies.
Posted by: dee aitche | December 31, 2007 at 09:10 AM
"So does that mean that bisexual women are.... very common??? Mediocrity at its very best."
What on earth has mediocrity got to do with anyone's sexuality?
Is Blackjack a gay person with a superiority complex or something?
Anyway in my experience women who identify as bisexual outnumber women who identify as lesbian by at least 5 to 1. And quite a lot of women who identify as lesbian are actually bisexual - in one way or another. Quite a lot of women who live in settled, loving, same-sex relationships identify as bisexual.
So what? You got a problem with that?
Posted by: Geri | January 10, 2008 at 07:59 PM
Hhhmmm.
I am definitely lesbian (absolutely NO sexual attraction to men).
I wouldn't know about the correct statistics. But I would agree there are a lot of bisexual women. I also think there are a LOT of asexual women (women who are NOT governed by their sexual appetite - but by their minds/hearts - sex being incidental).
I think sex and love are veeeeeery complex for a lot of women!
Any time I hear 'it isn't what gender you love that's important' I think asexual.
Because speaking as a purely lesbian women, it IS important to me!
Peace.
Posted by: Diana | January 02, 2009 at 04:08 PM
Hhhmmm.
I am definitely lesbian (absolutely NO sexual attraction to men).
I wouldn't know about the correct statistics. But I would agree there are a lot of bisexual women. I also think there are a LOT of asexual women (women who are NOT governed by their sexual appetite - but by their minds/hearts - sex being incidental).
I think sex and love are veeeeeery complex for a lot of women!
Any time I hear 'it isn't what gender you love that's important' I think asexual.
Because speaking as a purely lesbian women, it IS important to me!
Peace.
Posted by: Diana | January 02, 2009 at 04:10 PM